Whilst chatting today to a friend of mine, I decided to answer some questions that I get asked a lot and also gave Chuck the opportunity to ask some too. So please see below for some interesting questions and answers .. let me know what you think and if you have any more as I can do another similar post if I get enough!
Q: Do you prefer using toys or your fingers when masturbating?
A: Toys. There is a reason for this; one that a lot of people don’t think about when they say they are a fan of BBW’s … there is a bit of a logistical issue. When one is big, there is more skin in the way which in turn makes it harder for your fingers to reach the correct spot. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have abnormally small arms (although they could be longer!) but I do have a lot of skin to work past in order to get to my pussy. For that reason, I love using toys.
Q: Do you orgasm easily?
A: I can do yes, although not always. Sometimes when masturbating, if I have been turned on a lot beforehand, I can come for the first time within 30s but I have also been known to take an hour or so. I can also cum again and again without needing a rest in between! My record is 17 orgasms during a marathon session of 7 hours of fucking an ex of mine!
Q: Do you orgasm from Clitoral or Vaginal stimulation?
A: Both, although my most intense orgasms are from vaginal stimulation.
Q: Do you squirt?
A: Not yet – it is something that I would love to do at least once and if possible, learn to do regularly. I love watching women being fucked so hard that they squirt everywhere and Cytherea is my favourite; I love the way her whole body trembles and twitches when she comes.
Q: When did you lose your virginity?
A: I was a late starter due to a lack of confidence and ‘looking for’ sex after turning 16. I was 24 when I had sex for the first time and I don’t regret it at all. I lost it to a friend of mine called Dave; he knew I was a virgin and that I had no idea what I was doing. Looking back it was as vanilla as it could be that night – straight forward missionary and was over in about 10 minutes, but I loved it and it started my obsession with sex!
Q: Have you ever tried anal play (sex, licking, fingering etc)?
A: No. This is only because I have never been with anyone I trust enough… I have to admit that I am not sure that I will like it (isn’t that hole for one thing only?!) but am willing to give it a go once or twice to make sure!
Q: Have you always been comfortable with being a BBW? If not, when did you?
A: No – I have never been completely with my happy with my size. Having said that, I have never made a real concerted effort to lose weight so somewhere deep inside I must not care… right? I have made a decision that in 2010 I need to lose about 4 stone for my health though… but don’t panic, I will still be HUGE!
Q: Have you ever been with a woman? Would you try it or what would you be willing to try?
A: No. Well I say no, but the question is ambiguous. I have kissed another woman (and actually surprised myself by enjoying it) but have never had sex with one. I am willing to try anything so yes, would give it a go. It would have to be in a situation that I truly felt comfortable in and also think it would have to be a woman of my choice and preferably whilst a male fuck friend of mine was watching / taking part / nearby. Not sure why…!
Q: Does anyone in your family know about your “alter-ego”? If not, is there a scenario you could see where you could tell them?
A: HOLY CRAP I HOPE NOT! I love my family very much and get one with every single one of them very well. However, they are middle class England all over and would be mortified if they saw the website or this blog and knew what I spent most of my spare time doing online. They’re the main reason I hold back on meeting people too; that and my work / charity life. If my online persona was revealed I could lose so much and I know that I wouldn’t be strong enough to deal with it. Right now, I can’t see me telling anyone who knows me IRL (Al doesn’t count as we’ve never met face-to-face!).
Q: When the occasion arises when you happen to be sexually satisfied, what else do you enjoy?
A: I like the usual things that a 30 year old does; Music, TV, Films, Watching sport (hey I’m a BBW I don’t play sports!), reading and I also love researching my family history (I have got back to the early 1700’s!). I am also heavily involved with charity work; both my local community and running my own charity (forgive me not telling what it’s called only it’s so small you will then know who I am!).
Q: Is there a subject, sexual or not, that you are not well versed in that you would like to learn about?
A: All sorts – I would consider myself to be inexperienced sexually really so lap up information and experience as much as possible. I have always said that I will try something at least 3 times before I make a decision about it. I think the one thing I would like to know more about is BDSM – it intrigues me and scares me a little too but I am interested in the pain aspect as I have recently discovered that pain can be good…! Se the picture below for what I was up to this afternoon!
